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Perhaps this is a bit of a cop-out, but the majority of what I'm writing is coming from my experience; those experience happen to be of me as a black woman and how Asian men have reacted to it.So I like said above, this is going to be a series of posts.Take you ass to colleges/universities and later go to alumni events.For the younger ones, study your ass off for the SAT/ACT, get some scholarships and take your butt to college! They're on big campuses, little campuses, even HBCUs--stop laughing there are Asians that attend HBCUs.Hi everyone Everytime I go outside, I can see many foreign guys with a Chinese girlffriend, but I never see any foreign women with a Chinese boyfriend.This question can sound weird but I really wonder why?
Women are complaining that men aren't stepping up to the plate while some guys want women to take the lead.
I can fully understand any questioning my authority to write on such a topic--then again it seems you don't need to be an expert on anything to be declared a relationship expert nowadays (looking at you Patty Stanger and Steve Harvey). Interracial dating is a big deal for a lot of people. But it seems extra scary for some of those when we decide to step out out own racial pool and into another one. But I figured what the hey and decided to humor a few folks with just giving some advice.
It's still amazing to me how easy it is to find some many blog post, Topix questions, or encounter women in everyday life that are still asking about Asian men and how to meet them, how to date them, etc. #shrugs I'm sure you're also wondering why I'm gearing this mostly at women and not the men as well. I know it's not just black women Googling this stuff and have met Asian men asking some of the same questions as the women.
And it's surprisingly easy to slip into a conversation with a group of people.
You don't always have to speak up about things but making yourself visible and being interested in what people have to say can always help. Some professional groups like to do other cool things like scavenger hunts, sports, karaoke, etc.
Please feel free to call me out on anything that doesn't sound write and any advice you have of your own (and helpful advice...stuff like "Asian guys don't date black women" will not fly on this blog, sorry). When I wrote my 9 Responses to Complaints from Black Women Over Asian Men post ast year, I was vague when I stated that you can find Asian men all over the place While I do think that there are Asian men all over the place, I won't say that they are always easy to find.