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If she's into it, she'll probably try to give you the green light in a way that won't leave you wondering.If she's really up for getting together—or even just dirty phone stuff—she will indicate this.If she does not say as much IN A CLEAR AND AFFIRMATIVE WAY, leave her be. It's so damn hard to find the two-headed dragon of enthusiastic consent and availability.
On Tinder, make polite and casual conversation, then wait for cues on her end that this is a casual hookup situation.
We're talking snake-ball-biting odds of you getting laid when you ask these questions so fast.
It's transparent and lazy, and makes us assume you're not someone who is concerned about stuff like consent or whether the other person actually enjoys sex.
If she gives the incontrovertible thumbs-up, suggest something like vaguely cordial meeting for a drink. Not a handy or boudoir shots or anything like that.
If she doesn't want a drink and just wants to get straight to roleplaying "Foxcatcher" on your futon, she will say as much!
How would they treat a girl who asked to be left alone?