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I also make sure that I share equally with the household chores and cleaning.
I am still very much physically attracted to my wife and I tell her that I think she's beautiful and sexy quite frequently.
Over the course of our marriage, I've seen her interest in sex decline gradually to the point where she doesn't even have an interest anymore.
I treat her very well, provide most of the financial responsibility of our household, and make sure that I continue to take her out on dates, buy small gifts for her, bring her flowers, etc.
I've even gone so far as to ask my wife for an "open" marriage but she said "no way".
Although my frustration with this situation has been getting greater and greater, I still have decided to stay in the marriage (at least for now) because I love my wife and believe that marriage is meant to be a life-long commitment.
Despite the fact that approach is actually one of the least important parts of dating, it usually remains one of the most terrifying for many men.
So the only solution I have been able to come up with is having a secret affair with either a married woman in a similar situation or a single woman who is open-minded and mature enough to be "the other woman".
Does anyone on here know where I should look to find a woman who would be open to dating a married man like myself?
And in fairness, there are women who simply approach men, and the social and cultural barriers that discourage women from making the first move.
There is a great deal of social programming that warns women against being “that girl” – the pushy, clingy or “desperate” guy-chaser who drives men away, and there are many men who react badly to women who are “too forward”. but Look, there’s no getting around this: if you want to be the sort of guy that women approach, you have to put some effort into your appearance.
One is about your physical looks and the other is about your overall presentation.