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'I love him to bits, he’s my best friend, but I don’t have a sexual attraction to him. It’s a shame because I can’t go, “Oh, I think he’s sexy, too.” When I have sex it’s because I know it’s been long enough that he must want to have it.’ Clare told her husband she is asexual but he can’t understand.'Recently he said, “What is it – don’t you love me?She hasn’t masturbated for about 10 years – having only ever tried it out of curiosity.Today, she sleeps with her husband every fortnight to keep him satisfied.'One of the women I work with said, “I don’t think you’ve met the right man yet.” I said: “Trish, I’m 63.If I haven’t met him by now I don’t think I’m going to.”’ Jean vividly recalls her moment of asexual awakening, eight years ago.
You’re not sexually attracted to anybody because everybody is male but you still have sexual desires and you can still feel pleasure down there.’ So is it like someone who has no appetite but can still experience the pleasant taste of food? Growing up with no interest in sex during the sexual revolution, Jean Wilson recalls, 'My friends couldn’t believe it. 'The problem is that as you get older [dating is] more difficult anyway, and when you add in the asexuality, it makes it even more difficult. 'I really don’t need a close relationship, I don’t even need a best friend, and I’m quite happy the way I am.’ Prof Bogaert stresses that asexuality is not a problem.
'An asexual is someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction,’ is how Jay defines it.